Ever think….”Boy I wish I was alive during that decade, era, century”. I had that thought about BDSM and the scene this morning.
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I wish I was there say 20 years ago when it was still hush hush, no one talked about it, clubs and parties were secrets.
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I wish I was in the scene before it was a fashion for the young to dress up in ‘kinky’ clothes and party, pretending to be on the edge and fetishists.
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I wish I was within a community, like way back then, where BDSMers where more protective and caring for their kind.
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I wish not just everyone showed up to a BDSM club cause they saw it online and they kno nothing about dungeon protocol like not screaming and laughing or touching subs or doms in play
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I wish I was there when I would have felt like this blog was breaking down barriers, challenging society, and would have had a dangerous feel to it.
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But…maybe I would never have discovered this lifestyle had it not been for its accessibility!
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Who knows, just a thought.
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2 Responses to “I wish…”
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You know what they say:
Be careful what you wish for.
Those early days you describe, describe what the BDSM universe was for me at the beginning of my journey. It was a much more dangerous place.
It took me years of sifting through tons of fool’s gold to find one person I could trust.
Those days before Safe Sane and Consensual had become a common household word.
Every blog DOES break barriers, I believe.
Because each of us explore the BDSM universe from our own very unique mindsets.
Whoever has the deepest desire and kinship for the darker side of things, would still find their way.
Just the battle might have been a much more hard-fought one, and sweeter the victory.
Food for thought.
Angel
My friend, that is a very well thought out comment.
Where ever you are the grass is always greener elswhere but you never know if you will like it.