Yes there is still a lingering odor of vanilla in my romantic life. And right now its actually doing me some good I have to say.
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If you recall I wrote about a 2nd date I had recently with a guy who may actually be kinky and caught on somewhat to me pretty quick. After I last saw him he was off to BC for the holidays. Not only did I have to wait to get a call back, I had to wait from him to come back to wait for the call. Pure torture.
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At the same time I had 2 other good candidates with whom I was emailing but had not met. Both also were away during the holidays. Only one kept writing while away. So figuring how short the memory span can be with online dating I certainly did not expect to find myself with all 3 again once the Christmas and NYE’s dust settled. But the missing 3rd guy reappeared by email to reconnect yesterday too.
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But back to Not so Vanilla guy….3rd date tonight. Yes he called promptly after his return and asked me out. My few vanilla dates since BDSM has entered my life have always so interesting to reflect upon. I can’t just boss around off the bat. And this guy, he is very domineering in his life too and very European. So its putting a whole twist on things and has not lead to head butting yet but could. As I said last time…we shall see what happens with time.
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