Photo courtesy of Twisted Monk

Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in the next edition? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

♦ This Week’s Top Three Posts ♦

The Heart of Darkness - “I swear that man can sense my fear like a hound scenting a rabbit, and just like the hound, his blood rises to it.”

Forever… – “Forever is a beautiful idea, a wonderful goal, but it’s not a magic spell.“

His First Fuck - “He stood there, obviously nervous, obviously aroused by what he had been witness to seconds earlier.”

◊ e[lust] Editress ◊

I Dare You - “Aided by our clutches of printed papers, me hiding my nipples that could cut glass and him hiding the hard bulge in his dress pants, we scurried back to our cubes where the messages flew back and forth.”

♦ Featured Post ♦

Who am I? – “I’ve been through a lot of shit in my life and couldn’t fit it all on one piece of poster board.”

See also: Pleasurists #55 for all your sex toy review needs

.

Read the rest of this entry »

I am the present of this month’s Sin Academy. This is my second time doing a workshop here so I am very much looking forward to it.

.

■ Cabaret Cleo 1230 St-Laurent (2ème étage) … 9pm / entré gratuite / free admission … dress Code Vestimentaire : Fetish . Latex . PVC . Lingerie . Cuir . Goth . Glam . Xdress . Cosplay . Victorian . Tout en Noir. Pas de Jeans pas de Cameras!

.

RSVP either of Facebook or Fetlife

.

We all have heard about protocol – the unofficial rules of respect, discretion, and honor that we’re all supposed to know before we enter a specific group, society or even a 2 person relationship.

.

Within our community the basic ones are D/s Protocol, Play Protocol and Dungeon Protocol. Yet so many people are unclear on this subject.

.

In this workshop we’ll cover the basics of these different protocols, training methods, and philosophies.

.

.

■ Comment développer vos aptitudes de communication dans la scène D/s avec Lady Evyl

.

Nous avons tous entendu parler de protocole – les règles non officiels basés sur le respect, la discrétion et l’honneur que nous sommes tous censés connaître avant d’entrer dans un groupe, ne société ou même une relation entre de 2 personnes.

.

Au sein de notre communauté les protocoles de base sont le Protocole D/s, le Protocole de Jeux et le Protocole de Donjon. Par contre une bonne partie des gens ne sont pas clairs sur ces règles.

.

Dans cet atelier, nous allons couvrir les bases de ces différents protocoles, les méthodes de formation, et des philosophies.

.

NOTE: Breathplay and mummification is NOT for beginners. Have someone experienced teach you and assist at first.
.

plastic sheet……15$
saran wrap……20$
duct tape……$15
turning a sub into an mummy……priceless!

.
Who needs Brand Fraser when you have Rubberdandy as a friend. This latex crazed breath control obsessed friend of mine came over for a bit of mummy play. I love inflicting extreme restraint so we are a very good match for this. Rubberdandy enjoys extreme restraint and breath play. This was our second time doing this…hence the post’s title. I did a bit of a photo essay on our session so enjoy.
.
First layer that thick plastic you can get to protect your table cloth.
.

.
Then a full turn of saran wrap. Next 2 layers of Glad garbage bags…duct taped into place of course
.

.
Then another layer of saran wrap. And finally cover the entire body in duct tape.
.

.
Of course the whole time there is 1 hole cut: the mouth. But when the mummy is all done that is when a nice piece of electrical tape comes in handy for breath control.
.

.
And after a lot of play we cut the mummy free.
.

.
Here you see the shell. Its heavy, 6 layers total, and with puddles of sweat in it.
.
I won’t put the last picture for privacy but it is just to cute. Rubberdandy was coming back to the land of the living slowly and he was all curled up looking just like a new born baby…gone in subspace.
.

OK…I finally finished an article for a vanilla project….now I must prepare for my protocol workshop I am giving next weekend.
.
So I am asking you to contribute any special Protocols you have as inspiration to add a bit of pizazz to my speech?
.
Got something to share…leave me a comment!
.

I received this email from a vanilla friend. Had to share.
.

Our 80th Anniversary as Persons!

.
It is important to remember how recent it is that women in Canada were considered “persons” and how hard it was to win the “Vote.”
.
November is an important month of “Remembrance” for more than veterans – an especially important anniversary to those of us of the female persuasion in Canada.
.

An important history lesson!

.
This is the story of women in the United States who were ground-breakers.. These brave women from the early 1900s made all the difference in the lives we live today. Remember, it was not until 1920 that Canadian women were granted the right to go to the polls and vote.
.

.
The women were innocent and defenseless, but when, in North America, women picketed in front of the White House, carrying signs asking for the vote, they were jailed.
.

.
And by the end of the first night in jail, those women were barely alive. Forty prison guards wielding clubs and their warden’s blessing went on a rampage against the 33 women wrongly convicted of ‘obstructing sidewalk traffic..’
.
(Lucy Burns)
They beat Lucy Burns, chained her hands to the cell bars above her head and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping for air.
.

.
(Dora Lewis)
They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her head against an iron bed and knocked her out cold. Her cellmate, Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead and suffered a heart attack. Additional affidavits describe the guards grabbing, dragging, beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting and kicking the women.
.
Thus unfolded the ‘Night of Terror’ on Nov. 15, 1917, when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his guards to teach a lesson to the suffragists imprisoned there because they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson’s White House for the right to vote.
.
For weeks, the women’s only water came from an open pail. Their food–all of it colorless slop–was infested with worms.
.

.
(Alice Paul)
When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat and poured liquid into her until she vomited. She was tortured like this for weeks until word was smuggled out to the press.
.
All women who have ever voted, have ever owned property, have ever enjoyed equal rights need to remember that women’s rights had to be fought for in Canada as well. Do our daughters and our sisters know the price that was paid to earn rights for women here, in North America?
.

2009 is the 80th Anniversary of the Persons Case in Canada, which finally declared women in Canada to be Persons!

.
Please, if you are so inclined, pass this on to all the women you know, so that we remember to celebrate the rights we enjoy.
.
“Knowledge is Freedom: hide it, and it withers; share it, and it blooms” (P. Hill)
.

Welcome to the first edition of e[lust]! Below is your source for inspirations of lust and sexual intelligence from a wide range of sex bloggers. Want to be included in the next edition? Submission period opens for e[lust] # 2 on November 20th – subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for all updates! Check out the submission guidelines and rules of general conduct here.

This week’s top three picks as chosen by fellow e[lust] participants:

At Your Service - His hand pushes on my thigh and I turn away from him, allowing him to inspect my ass. His hands spread my ass cheeks and again I flood with wetness.

Cinderella – “‘I want to fuck you…’ he growled, nipping at her neck and kissing down over her breasts, biting at her nipples through the fabric, making her cry out.

Anal Sex Pt 2: The Ins and Outs of Butt Sex - Butt sex is what you make of it. Enjoy yourselves, be careful, and try everything that looks interesting.

Editor’s Pick:

The Slut Chronicles #5 – The Flight Delay – “When her eye caught his blatantly checking her out, he only grinned wider, with no remorse at all and it was she who blushed furiously.”

A note from the editor: And so it begins…

See also: Pleasurist’s #54 for your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days.  Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

Just A Little Taste
Older and Better Than Ever
Good Morning
Your Eyes
MFM: The Student. The Teacher.
Get Me Off
The Club & Introductory Note
Don’t Come
The City
Howl at the Moon
Rimjob
Consumed
The Devil Inside
One of the Greats
Room Service

Kink & Fetish

A Busy Night
Bad Taste?
Protocols
The Illusion of Beginning: Pt 1
“You hit me…”
Reconnecting
Too Many Buttons
Nadia’s Wishing Box
The Mason Jar
So Sexy Boots*********

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Swing Shift Vol. 18 – Safe Sex and Getting Tested
Libido Resurrection Programme™
Check Up
Oh, Baby, Baby
UnderRated: Fucking the Mind

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Vixen Invites
I’m Quoted in Time Out NY!
Top Five Tuesday – Euro Studs
She Makes Me Feel Like a Whore

pull by aeric meredith goujon

Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.

Did you miss Pleasurists #54? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #56? Use our submission form and submit it before Sunday November 29th at 11:59pm PST. Be sure to read our submission guidelines.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

• What Are You Thankful For? Deadline: November 26th.
• ToyDemon.com Gift Certificate Giveaway Deadline: November 30th @ noon Eastern.
• The S Spot Sexy Short Story Contest! Deadline: November 30th.
• Luxury Sex Toy Scavenger Hunt Deadline: December 12th @ midnight Pacific.
• Tons of Glass Contest! Deadline: December 27th @ 11:59 Eastern.

Looking for something other than reviews?

The latest (and first) edition! e[lust] #1

Editor’s Pick

• LELO Elise by Scintillectual

Remember when I said I was on hiatus from relationships? Well, I lied. I know, I know! I can hear my friends railing now about the fact that I jump into things too quickly and yes, she has already moved in with me. But, really, I do think she’s THE ONE. Before you get all hot and bothered, let me introduce you. Dear reader, this is LELO Elise.

Note: Apparently I’m loving LELO reviews again this month (last week’s EP was LELO Ella)! I’ve read many many Elise reviews so they have to be special in order for them to catch my eye or make me want to finish them, and this one is written in an extremely entertaining manner so even if you’re burned out on LELO reviews like I thought I was it’s definitely worth the read.

Editor

Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

On to the reviews…

Vibrators

• Mini Gallant by Dani Darling
• Thumbelina by Undressed Reviews
• Cal Exotics Spellbound “G” by Alley
• OhMiBod Club Vibe by Mystyfi
• Lovemoiselle Cecile by Laurel
• Jimmyjane Iconic Bullet by Sexorcism

Dildos

• Colorful Spiral Wrapped G-Spot Wonder by Melen’s Rayne
• Zodiac by Joanna Cake
• Fun Factory Curve by Curvaceous Dee
• Jollies Thrust by Carrie Ann
• Tantus Alumina Flow by Carrie Ann
• Purple Rain Wand by Kyle Jones

Toys for Cocks

• Tenga Flip Hole by Tales from the Porn Store

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

• Jimmy Jane’s Contour M + Afterglow Sensory Set by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• Bare Essence Gift Box by Dangerous Lilly
• System JO Aroma Mist by Alley
• Root Beer Fizz Lube by Tales from the Porn Store
• Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel by Lady Evyl*************
• Flower Balm by Garnet Joyce
• Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel by Sexorcism

BDSM/Fetish

• Spartacus Wide Tip Bat by Wilhelmina Wang
• Leatherbeaten Bondage Kit by Melen’s Rayne
• Silk Scarf Restraints by Sommer Marsden
• Slave Utility Wrist Cuffs by Mistress Kay

Adult Books/Games

• Anneke Jacob’s As She’s Told by Nadia West
• Frenzy – 60 Stories of Sudden Sex by Dangerous Lilly
• The Art of Sensual Female Dominance by Mistress Kay

Adult Movies/Porn

• Blacklight Beauty by Saraid
• Nina Hartley’s Guide to the Ultimate Sex Party by The Duchess
• Impure Hunger by J.D. Bauchery
• Glamour Smoke by FrzKey
• Deep In The Vivid Vaults by The Porn Librarian
• The Masseuse by J.D. Bauchery
• Haitoku No Shojo – Girl of Debauchery by FrzKey

Lingerie

• Industrial Net Stockings by Valyn

Miscellaneous

• Sportsheets Chest Harness & Dildo by Dragon Mage
• KinkAcademy.com by Dangerous Lilly

My newest experimental romp session was brought to you by Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel, graciously sent to me by the amazing Babeland.com women friendly adult toy store.

.

There are so many clitoral arousal gels on the market its hard to pick one. I never really considered trying one either but I thought this was a perfect opportunity. Now the Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel is very unique: its all natural, made with certified organic botanicals, Glycerine and paraben free…and its 100% vegan – which is funny because my new boy toy lover is vegetarian so he got a kick out of that.

.

.

So my lover put a small dab on his fingers and proceeded to massage the oil unto my clit and WOW it was instant tingly…a little too much. It was a mix of cold and hot. Actually its not that it was too much, it was just way more sensation that I expected. But that lasted only a few seconds. Then the sensations calmed a bit and stabilized to a nice intensity. Its definitely a fun little oil to have on hand. Great to help out the ladies on days where your libido may be a bit lower then normal.

.

I do have 2 negative point to mention. First, i don,t know if it was just do to the fact of being lost in the throws of passion or not…but I stopped feeling the tingles faster then I would have hoped. Second, very important, the product contains natural oils that are not latex-compatible.

.

Specs:
- 1oz bottle
- ingredients: Purified Water, Plant Cellulose (from Cotton), Aloe Barbadensis, Natural Tocopherols (Vitamin E), Cyamopsis (Guar Gum), Peppermint Oil, Sweet Almond Oil, Menthol, Citric Acid (Citrus Fruits), Extracts of Hibiscus, Flax, Green Tea & Sunflower Seed

.

Overall I give this gel a 3 out of 5 because it came on strong but quickly dissipated too. A middle would be good.

.

Thank you to Babeland. what are you waiting for…go visit them now!

.

Finally…after 1 week offline, due to the stupidist host transfer because of old host, I am BACK ONLINE.

.

I missed not blogging so bad, it was such a stress. But now I am back….and will have a lot to cacth up on…so stay tuned.

.

Mystress Lady Evyl

.

Lord its been quite a few days since my last post. But not from a lack of subject matter at all! I was not too happy. I had website issues for like 30 hours where my 4 websites were down. SO NOT HAPPY at all. After a gazillion exchanges the last message I got was support is not given to Adult sites and I was suspended….on top of it with a glitch. Anyways I finnally spoke to someone who got them back up. I wrote a complaint letter and they came back..eventually, that no support is given to adult sites and I should fix the reoccuring error which they can’t tell how to fix exactly. They all say see your web developer, fix the problem and you can stay if you are not a technical problem. FUCK I don’t have one…I do everything…aaaarrrgghhhh. Also I think I am just out growing them and hitting the bandwith more then they like. Looking for a hosting…DO NOT GO to 3ix.org. Ok thanks for the vent.

.
Well good news is the system admin of where I work happens to be a good friend and is one of the 2 people at work that know abut Lady Evyl. He has a side hosting company. We dicussed things and I will be moving to his server. Haleluya a silver lining.

.

Above is not related again but as I said I was down for 30 hours and then when I was up I had to go out of town for the weekend. Just back and saying Hi! So I will be writting about the Body Mod Night I co-hosted at the Loft in the next days. Now I was due to get a piercing that night but things just went too late (like 5am last peircing) so Pat Pierce wanted to do it at the Excentrick shop when he was, like, awake and safe.

.

So off I went for my second nipple piercing on Wednesday night with my mentee LiquidRaspberry. She loves getting pierced and makes it look so easy. Now if you remember I did my first nipple back in March 09. At the time the last piercing I did was like 17 years ago for the 6th earlobe hole. Back in March I went in there with the highlest level of anxiety ever because I had no clue what to expect. And it hurt…like HELL during the piercing, like HELL for 3 hours after with pain shots coming and going, and the it hurt like HELL for 2 week where it was constantly raw in sensitivity

.

So I went in the shop this week knowing exactly what to expect but wondering WTF for? But I was going to do the second nipple. Well I am happy to report it was a completely different experience. First Pat Pierce has become a friend since March so I really trust him and I am 100% sincere when I say he RULES and is the best Piercer in town. The actual piercing was still very painful but lasted maybe 20 sec instead of the 90 sec the first time. I did get swing of pain a bit the first 3 hours but much less then the first time. But this is the best part. The next there was no pain. Ok if I bump into it it certainly does. But in March I looked at it and it would hurt the first 14 days. This time…no pain. I am so happy.

.

http://www.whimbodyjewelry.com/product/4227/4445.html

.
 

Just goes to show how stress and anxiety can really, really mess up an experience.

.

By the way…..Sorry no pics to show of my breats this time…well not for now. But here is a pic with a nice piece of jewelery someone begging to get digged back to earth level should be ordering for me. hint hint

.