The Long Awaited Demo
This week it FINALLY happended. It only took about 5 months. Ok its not like we were dedicated to the cause, we waited for others to come forward…but this Wednesday it finally happened.
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I am talking about the CBT demo I offered to give, a mini workshop, for two friends of mine who are relatively newer Dommes of the scene.
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It seems many have this theory that any Domme has a following of devoted subs. Its kind of BS. Sure some do but most not. So we all at various times just put a note in our online profiles we were looking for a guinea pig for 1 CBT demo. Yes we got responses but none suited us. Either it was sub all 3 of us new and we did not wish to be in that posistion with them…or (no offense) much old dick speciems then we wanted. Or of course we had a lot of ‘please use me as you wish Mistress’ that we never met before and talking to them a bit reveiled how unreliable they were. So hope had gone down the drain a bit.
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So different scenario. I met a ’sub’ months ago from online. We met once for coffe and it was a good potential. We met again for play and it was pretty good. We met a third time and it was not good. This was always with some weeks or months apart. Then I recently heard from him again after months of disappearance asking if we could meet up. I told him he was nice and all but I just did not feel the Ds connection. He very graciously answered back thanking me for the time I had given him and what I taught him…but he agreed he was maybe more kinky then sub. His answer was just so sweet and sincere I agreed to just socialize and maybe do a bit of rope since we both enjoyed. We met up and well had a agin a hit and miss meeting. But I brought up casually the CBT demo and he volunteered!
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I was in shock because he is not a masochist at all and gets nothing out of impact play. But he was sincere in his offer, I already knew him, I knew I could depend on him…he was perfect. So I contacted the Ladies and a date was set. I prepared my little worŝhop, he actually showed up earlier then the Ladies. Although we were pressed for time we had a blast during the demo. Of course I think he was a bit under pressusre to, ahum, perform at all times but he was really great. And he gave great feedback to the Ladies during the demo. We all had a great time.
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There are 2 points though were he was disappointed but that we found hilarious. We did not push to much but when ever we did something to his jewels that was a bit painful he actually thought we would sympathize and stop in fear of hurting him HA! We did not torture the boy bt we looked at him laughing and sai ‘yeah, it hurst, to bad for you’. And since there was nothing sexual in the end we did allow him to finish himself off in front us…to which again the pressure was too much lol. Poor thing left with sore balls and no relief. One thing he did want to do is proove to the Ladies he could take the 5 pound weight on top of the 1 pound clamp and I had done to him before. I think he is quite proud of this now, rightfully so!
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The Ladies really had fun and we had a lovely little dinner after (and 2 bottles of wine). They loved him a lot as our guinea pig.
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Not sure what the future holds in my relationship with this guy, I would be very happy to count him as a friend. With all our failed attempts I would never expected to continue contact but I have come to regard him with great respect, friendship and sincerity. You never know how thing will go with the people you come across.
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