I am a proud Mama today, my baby is 2! Cross posted on KSL

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Watch out everyone, we are in our TERRIBLE 2s lol

Mystress Lady Evyl, administrator

I think I am getting out of my no bloging funk slowly.And yesterday I received an email that certainly is motivating to post more.

From the editor-in-chief:

I have some good news for you: your site Mystress Lady Evyl has been chosen by SexForums.com Editors as a 2010 Best Pick! I’m the Editor-in-Chief of  SexForums, which since 1998 has been one of the world’s largest online adult communities. Last fall our editors started putting together a program that would spotlight the best adult-themed web publishers for our members. We began scouring the web for the best, finest, funniest, and most informative adult sites and blogs. I’m happy to inform you that your site Mystress Lady Evyl was chosen by our Editors to represent the very Best the Web has to offer.

And indeed my blog was posted on their best of page. So I was quite flattered indeed.

Thank you very much!

I received this email from a vanilla friend. Had to share.
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Our 80th Anniversary as Persons!

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It is important to remember how recent it is that women in Canada were considered “persons” and how hard it was to win the “Vote.”
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November is an important month of “Remembrance” for more than veterans – an especially important anniversary to those of us of the female persuasion in Canada.
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An important history lesson!

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This is the story of women in the United States who were ground-breakers.. These brave women from the early 1900s made all the difference in the lives we live today. Remember, it was not until 1920 that Canadian women were granted the right to go to the polls and vote.
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The women were innocent and defenseless, but when, in North America, women picketed in front of the White House, carrying signs asking for the vote, they were jailed.
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And by the end of the first night in jail, those women were barely alive. Forty prison guards wielding clubs and their warden’s blessing went on a rampage against the 33 women wrongly convicted of ‘obstructing sidewalk traffic..’
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(Lucy Burns)
They beat Lucy Burns, chained her hands to the cell bars above her head and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping for air.
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(Dora Lewis)
They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her head against an iron bed and knocked her out cold. Her cellmate, Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead and suffered a heart attack. Additional affidavits describe the guards grabbing, dragging, beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting and kicking the women.
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Thus unfolded the ‘Night of Terror’ on Nov. 15, 1917, when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his guards to teach a lesson to the suffragists imprisoned there because they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson’s White House for the right to vote.
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For weeks, the women’s only water came from an open pail. Their food–all of it colorless slop–was infested with worms.
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(Alice Paul)
When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat and poured liquid into her until she vomited. She was tortured like this for weeks until word was smuggled out to the press.
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All women who have ever voted, have ever owned property, have ever enjoyed equal rights need to remember that women’s rights had to be fought for in Canada as well. Do our daughters and our sisters know the price that was paid to earn rights for women here, in North America?
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2009 is the 80th Anniversary of the Persons Case in Canada, which finally declared women in Canada to be Persons!

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Please, if you are so inclined, pass this on to all the women you know, so that we remember to celebrate the rights we enjoy.
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“Knowledge is Freedom: hide it, and it withers; share it, and it blooms” (P. Hill)
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I was sent this link by Sex Blog Conspiracy who did a little write up on my 2 blogs. I was blushing from all the shameless gushing they wrote about my efforts. Read it here: KinkySexLink and LadyEvyl’s virtual empire
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Although the writers were forced to take a hiatus they assured me they are back up and will be posting like crazy!

…I am Original!
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See the review I got on JanesGuide. It’s a little false because she says my blog is partly French…but I think she reviewed it like the 1 time I included some French. Still very happy with review. read it in the BDSM Female Bondage section.
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This time I went to visit my friend Miss Susan in Toronto. As you remember she came to see (and meet) me in February. We met on Fetlife and developped a friendship that has become a RL friendship too, a precious one. So with the limited budget I had for my summer holidays I thought a trip to TO was perfect. I spent 4 of my 6 nights at her place with her boyfriend, Nick_B.
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I could not have asked for more wonderful and gracious hosts. A bonus is Nick_B’s chef background too. When we ate there we ate so well!! Yumm. Thank you guys so much! yeah its him with the word FABULOUS on his ass!
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I won’t bore you will all my travel details, just the kinky stuff. Of course it was often a subject on conversation. We also hit all the great sex and fetish shops in town like NorthBound and Missbehavin, to name a few. I had been asked to bring along my cell popping kit as mis Susan wanted to redo the one she got in February and Nick_B also asked for one. Wow two great canvas’ to work on and with great results. I just love burning tiny wholes in people as an art form!
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And then Sat night we had great plans to attend a FemDom private party. I got a PVC waist cincher that day so I decided to go topless (with the famous electrical nipple Xs) instead of wearing the top i had brought. My vanilla Toronto friend finally agreed to join us and she was a bit shocked to see me in that outift lol. We were joined by cromagnum and a friend of his as well for a pre evening drink. It was so nice to put faces to names I had heard of for a while.
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Yep that is a pic of my feet in lake Ontario and I was not turned into a 3 breasted freak! The party was held in a gorgeous house in the Beaches. Funny enough one of the first people I came across, the designated bar tender, was one of the first people I chatted with on Fetlife and msn, like a year and a half ago. What a surprise and a lovely one to meet this boy face to face. I have to say the party was on a quiet note as not everyone can be super social to new faces but we mostly hung out in the garden and chatted with a few interesting guests. And I was very happy to meet a sub with whom a love connection was formed for that night. I really wanted to play at this party so I was very pleased to have met him. We had a really fun session that spectators enjoyed…again shocking a bit my vanilla friend lol.
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Sunday was a relaxing day and I got my tour of Miss Susan’s closet….as I have given her when she came to see me. It so much fun to see other toys and I took note of a few to recreate.
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I spent my last 2 nights at my vanilla friends and made my way back to Montreal way too soon. Ah well, an excuse to plan a future trip. And there will be more Miss Susan stories to come as she and Nick_B will be staying with me in September for the Montreal Fetish Weekend. Can’t wait.
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God sometimes my mind is just baffeled when I read messages some subs send. The comments I hear sometimes are outrageous and so funny in their stupidity! Here is the latest one:
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“once I cum It’s hard for me to maintain a submissive status. the game ends then”
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OK so in other words once you got what you want you don’t give a shit anymore about being a sub…gee, I think some slept though D/s 101.
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A while back I toyed with the idea of a BDSM version of don’t date him girl. But I quickly dropped the idea cause it does have a childish, icky feeling to it (although some boys really deserve to be on it). But now I have a new idea. How about just 1 page devoted to stupid comments submissives or dominants may say during online exchanges, both male or female. I am sure I am not the only one that comes across moronic jewels.
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What do you think? Good idea, bad idea? Share some comments to you got in a comment below…keep it anonymous please as to who the pert was!
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Mystress Lady Evyl
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So this is the separate post I referred too in the Chocolate Dick treat below.
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I was honored to be included in a now yearly tradition with a Dom/sub couple I know….where He rewards her for a 24hr period by bottoming. Normally it takes place Jan 6ht but it was postponed this year till the end of may for various reasons.
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So this post is going to be bilingual…because he has his blog and it is in French and he gave me permission to use parts of his text. I will make my comments in English. By the way his blog is Sortir de l’Ombre.
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17h00, soit après le cours, il faut aller chercher Lady Evyl a son domicile. Pantalon noir, chemise noir, cravate et veston, lunette fumée et casquette de conducteur, je me pointe a la porte de Miss Evyl avec mes instructions en mains. Ding et Dong.
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« Bonjour, je suis venu vous chercher pour une soirée de plaisir. J’ai instruction de vous amener chez Miss ma soumise. De plus, je viens avec une politique de satisfaction (tel qu’écrit sur ma carte d’instruction) . Malheureusement, j’avais les mains pleines et j’ai fais la gaffe de demander qu’on m’ouvre la porte…oufffff! Une note dans le carnet. La soirée va être longue.
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I have been waiting for MONTHS for him to come get me whit his chauffeur hat… and he arrives all spiffy and professional. WOW…too bad he earned his first punishment note of the evening too. He was good about putting on my coat and picking up my night bag…but he claims having his hands full with an umbrella in the other was a good excuse to not open the door. NOT
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Les deux demoiselles se sont amusées a mes dépends le long du retour a la maison. Elles étaient assises derrière moi et s’en donnaient a cœur joie. Pas de trouble, je joue mon rôle de garçon gêné et soumis. Et je dis bien : « joue un rôle »
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Yes our chauffeur took care of taking us back to their place while the ladies sat in the back chatting and teasing him in front. Of course for me that was the beginning of my biting my tongue. Him being Dom and my very good friend I could only push the envelope so far.
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Arriver a destination, je prépare des margaritas maison (que je conseille également d’essayer) pendant que les dames choisissent le menus de ce soir :Sushis!
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Yummy Margariats in deed. And a nice attempt at a mini foot massage…a big challenge for him, a big limit in his book to give!
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Elles parlent qu’elles veulent me faire essayer un truc : Faire mon membre en chocolat (qui vient en kit complet) Je freak un peu car je ne suis pas très exhibitionniste, mais, je suis prêt a le faire. Je souligne par contre que je vais devoir aller chercher les sushis bientôt et que nous n’aurons pas le temps de faire ca maintenant. Fiou. C’est remis. Par contre, je dois me déshabiller et me mettre en boxer et t-shirt et faire une parade pour des photos. Aie!
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Je vais chercher les sushis. Ils sont délicieux. Après le repas, je dois me mettre nu comme un vers et attendre sur le lit. C’est l’heure de faire le moule en chocolat. Bon, je me motive. Je suis prêt malgré les quelques grimaces que j’ai du laisser échapper.
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La miss ma soumise entre et me dit qu’elle ne me fera pas faire ca, qu’elles allaient prendre un dildo a la place. Chickennnnnnnn!!!
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On s’amuse à mouler le dildo et faire le dessert ainsi. C’est vraiment cool ce truc (et oui, je le recommande également.lol)
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Too precious, the look on his face. Although we normally play all 3 I keep it non sexual (well with him lol) so his reaction at the idea of my being OK with him naked around me is too funny. But alas the dildo was the lucky one to be cast in chocolate…not the Dom. The fashion parade in boxers…loved it. Eating the sushi was fun (and delicious) were we took turns sometimes feeding one another. At one point he asks me if he may feed me ginger…to which I said yes. Well as he put the ginger in my mouth he says this is as close as he will ever get to figging me! Ok it was funyy and now that I think about it we should have added it though to the punishment list…damn!
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On passe aux choses sérieuses maintenant. Dans le donjon! Je descends au sous-sol et en arrivant dans la pièce, je vois la table installée pour une séance médicale. Oh misère!
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Mais, avant, je dois exécuter, sous peine de représailles, une autre session de photo sur le stage avec un casque de pompier. Ha les maudits fetichistes.lol. Bon, on repart et avec de la musique…faut être sexy il parait. Ouffffffffffffff.
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Yes now are plan of action must take place. Off to the dungeon we go with our list of accumulated punishments of the day! Oh what fun. And the fireman photo shoot he had to do was amazing to haha…dance poll included so his sub can have lovely shots to masturbate too when alone.His sub an I also set up the dungeon for a medical scene fully aware the impact it will leave on him.
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Après les photos, je dois me laisser attacher. C’est ma toute première fois qu’on exécute un bondage sur moi. Et pour être honnête, ca ne me fais pas tripper pantoute la restriction, mais par contre, les mains qui me tripotent, alors la, j’adore! Bondage terminé, on me détache pour me pencher en me baissant la culotte et on se met à me réciter mes fautes de la journée. Je proteste, mais en vain. Je dois lancer un dé et le chiffre qui se présente, on le multiplie par 5. Je sais pas pourquoi, mais enfin, c’est par 5. Enfin, elles (les tortionnaires assoiffées de pouvoir) me donnent les punitions. Elles ont été gentille et délicates de peur de me faire mal. Trop gentille!
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Now our plan is in full swing. I first proceed with a bit of Shibari…a first for him. he likes being groped….go figure! Then we gave him a series of spankings according to the list of punishments. I am a little nervous here cause I know he is pretty game but I don’t to cross a limit either…out of respect for my fellow dominant who is kind enough and trusting enough to have me there. So its a little spaniking.
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Ensuite, Miss Evyl enfile son strapon pendant que miss ma soumise me prépare l’anus avec du lubrifiant. Oh la la, ca devient sérieux.
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Mais non!
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Elles ont encore chockées! Je proteste. J’aime le strapon. Mais mes protestations sont sans retour d’appels. C’était juste pour me faire languir et bien, elles ont réussie.
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Then the SHMUCK ruins are big ending! Again we do not play sexual usually…but I was amed with my strap-on. We hd this all planned out: he was suppose to freak. I put the strap-on on in front of him. His eyes went large but not with fear, more with disbeleife and glee. He wanted it. When we told him it was a joke he really was disapointed and upset. but hey its not his day…its his sub’s day That is where we reveled his sub’s true wish: a double doming long session of 3-4 hours…which we did.
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Après cela, ma soumise demande que, pour sa journée, ont se mettent a deux et jouer avec elle pour une longue séance. Après tout, c’est SA journée et elle veut se faire gâter alors, Miss Evyl et moi avons exécutés avec plaisir, une mini séance médicale (incluant sa petite jouissance qu’elle n’a pas eu le matin) et une fessée sur ma petite soumise.
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La soirée se termina sur une bonne note. Les 3 participants ont appréciés. Le bla bla d’après journée du 6 janvier ont amené a de belle discussions par la suite.
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We finished off the evening with one last Margarita before bed…and a few nibbles of the chocolate dick. We laughed and had fun and chatted. All I can say is that I REALLY HOPE I am invited again next year lol (is the message clear gator??)
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Mystress lady Evyl
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Yes I get to be humble a bit today…..an interview I did with Ruth at exploringintimacy.com was published today.
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Thank you Ruth for the opportunity. Check it out!
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Fetish Interview Lady Evyl
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Saturday night was quite a night…more on that on a separate blog. But one of our projects of the evening was making a chocolate penis. A friend had a Clone-a-Willy Chocolate Kit for about a year and had not used it yet. Her better half did not feel, how should I say, UP to the challenge in my presence as well so we used a dildo. I did a photo chronical of our project and thought you, my readers, would enjoy it.

Step 1….Get a dildo or an real erect penis

Step 2….Mix gel according to instructions, insert didlo or penis in tube, let set, remove dildo or penis and voilà …we have a mold.

Step 3….Melt chocolate carefully with burning it in microwave and let it cool to directions. Poor chocolate into the mold, place stick in chocolate and place in fridge to harden.

Step 4….Remove from mold gently and there you go…a chocolate replica of your favorite dick!

You then have several choices!

You can get a male friend to play with it and let him pretend his cock really does taste like chocolate!

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circumcise it like I did in good FemDom spirit!

Guaranteed fun!

Mystress Lady Evyl