I have the worst natural nails on earth. Thin, soft, breakable. And fake nails usually do a number on my natural nail bed. But sometimes I treat myself to a gel kit, like I did this this week. I am also really tough so I break those off fast enough, a miracle I had them on 3 days before one broke.

I had to take a pic for posterity. I laugh at how they look just like the nails porn stars have in porn movies.

This is kind of an old pic, going back to April when muzhik came for a visit. Being a bad photo sub I recuperated these pics off his camera when I went to see him in July. What a pretty pic in a chastity device!

My friend Shadow13 had brought a little liquid latex for fun at the BDSM event that night. He let a few people have fun with it, including Me. So this is not my proudest moment but this is a scene that went awry…but it did feed my sadistic side. I decided to apply the liquid latex liberally to muzhik’s chest. Only it was pretty much to late when Shadow13 came back and went: How hairy is his chest cause that is gonna hurt!

Oups. Well he is not superbly hairy so I crossed my fingers it would not be too bad. We let it dry and then started peeling. Actually it was more like trying to peel because it was so tangled up in the chest hair the latex would break. Yet it did not pull hair out that much, just some.

Next 30 minutes were the most painful of muzhik’s life. And he is trained for fighting and pain somewhat professionally…he said it was the most atrocious pain he has ever felt. Of course he is a stubborn boy, not a masochist, though but proud and stubborn who can take what I give. There was 2 of us at a time trying to get the job as quick and as painless as possible. Shadow13 was cringing every time he came in for a peek at the progress. At one point I let one friend peel and I just concentrated on holding muzhik’s hands and soothing him as best I could. Finally we got everything off.

It was not my intent to cause that much pain, I was cringing at his screams. Of course proud that he is, he was more concerned that others in the club would think of him being a wuss… HELL NO!!! By the way, for skin with moderate to abundant hair, it is recommended that the latex be removed in a hot shower or bath with soap. The latex will not dissolve, but may be rubbed off in pieces much easier as the moisture of the water help release it from the skin or hair. Shadow13 told me so but I said we would see how it went. If muzhik pulled a safe word then yes. But he did not.

Oh what a nice holiday I had down in North Carolina with muzhik. Although there were some BDSM events on the agenda we had decided to keep my visit at his place more vanilla and chill. We really played the tourists, it was really nice. This also means my best nondescript pics are all of a vanilla nature but hopefully you will enjoy them none the less. A couple of pics do have a kinky connotation!

Out of my 6 days there 2 were spent at the beach. I LOVE the ocean, nothing it more soothing in the world for me. See my porter carrying all our stuff he he.

Foot in sand a few feet away from the ocean equals a Happy Mistress.

muzhik made me discover sand crabs, yes these crabs are right beneath your feet by the water.

A walk in the marina made me envious of sailboat owners. This one has quite a sense of humor, wonder if he is also into bondage lol?

Not living by the ocean always turns me into a 4 year old when I really am at the beach. Here I am looking silly and here are some sea shells I brought back.

But there were 4 more days to fill. We had a museum day, a botanical garden day, a lazy shopping day. We seem to have a bad habit of getting out of the house relatively late in the morning so the tourist role play part is short. And one day was a TMG munch in a park with about 60 attendees. It was a lot of fun. One night was spent at Melequus (whom I stayed with in January) who was hosting a weekend long Playpalooza event. And one night we had an invite to a private play party at Miss Scarlet and whisper’s place. We also had a dinner invitation at my friend  Nev‘s place for a great evening of food and chat.

I love the crate myrtle trees here, they are everywhere and so colorful. These pics are from the Raleigh Arboretum. The second pic is Muscadine grape with which a local sweet wine is made.

I have no idea why but we did not bring or put on any sunscreen when we went to the Arboretum. It was freaking HOT that day and I got a light sun burn. I had to take a pic and claimed it as “Working on my redneck tan line”. It is no longer there (evened it out at the beach thank god).

It is another world for me going to the south of the US, my being the ‘foreign’ Canadian girl as muzhik like to tease. Life is so different here and men are a weird mix of both southern proper charm and grittiness. Even the trucks have balls! lol.

It was a wonderful vacation, if not very busy. No rest for the wicked, right? Return to reality and routine has been more then hard. I want to go back to the beach with my boy now!

I am back, well physically. mentally I am still not here. That may take a while as I am in total denial lol.

I hope you enjoyed all the toys reviews while I was away. I will have a few interesting blogs coming soon about my trip down to Raleigh to see my sub muzhik. We got to attend 3 local Kink events. Just gimme a bit of time to catch up on life.

Funny enough it was so freaking hot down there I was dying. But turns out Montreal was actually suffering much worse temperatures. Well the thermometer said the same thing in both locations but the humidity in Montreal is a killer. I have been living in my bedroom where I have AC…set up my lap top and a TV in there. Cats snuglle me all day too in the bedroom. And AC is the only good point of having to come back to work today! And to think in Raleigh they would ask me if I ever knew such heats in Montreal. HA! It’s worse here.

So stories coming soon. Thank you muzhik for putting up with my abuse for 6 days, thank you Nev for the social time and dinner at your place, thank you Mel, Miss Scarlet and Whisper for hosting parties, as well as TMG for the big Munch.

I the mean time I leave you with a naughty pic for entertainment! Change the guy with someone more average and you got a scene I did witness at one of those parties!

About a year ago I posted a link to a petition to fight a plan put forward by the city to clean up the red light district. The organization set up to try and save the area lost. Now the corner of St-Laurent and Ste-Catherine has always been a bit seedy and it used to be the hot spot for prostitution (they have move east already a while back).

Today, at least for now, it is an colony buzzing with artists, a few remaining XXX movie theaters, cheap restaurants, and Club Sin our local monthly fetish hang out. Actually the word “today” is already the past. I happen to walk by yesterday on my way to Chinatown and the SW corner is a husk of closed businesses. Club Sin’s fate is still up in the air as to whether it can be relocated.

Basically the city wants to tear down a bunch of run down, yet historical and touristy, buildings to make big new office towers. Until the bulldozer is scheduled to destruct the area the city has opened the store fronts to graffiti artists. I had my camera on me so I am decided to make a public record in this post of the work of these street artists.

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Now lets just look at something pretty this morning, OK?

The one and only pic i have to share from my weekend in Toronto. Miss Susan was kind enough to let me play with some long white eyelashes. it was my first time putting some one and they were very cool, a bit annoying, but cool. Going to invest in some for sure. What do you think?

Actual blog of the weekend coming soon!

Here is another fun, fun, fun story from muzhik’s last visit. Yes this is another scene that fated him from one of the five mystery boxes. In it was an anal hook. Now I had no idea how the scene would go when I packaged this box. But seems like a series of events made the decision too easy.

But before I amuse you with his predicament, don’t forget to enter the Swag Alert: Win a Desire Vibe contest, you have till May 19, 2010 at 9:00 pm EST to enter.

Now on to the story! I have had this anal hook for quite some time. I was handmade for me by my old sub. But he never got to have it used on him as things ended not ling after. It collected dust in the closet until I decided muzhik would be the lucky boy to baptize it on the Sunday morning.

The night before, while we were attending a BDSM party, I had planned to use my TENS unit. I unpacked it at the club around 3 o’clock in the morning, he was all set up in bondage with a ball gag and a blindfold. This was to be his first experience with electricity.  I placed the pads on him, hooked them up to the TENS, played with the dials….nothing. The battery was dead! SHOOT! I was disappointed and so was he. I think he asked me 3 times in next hours if we could go buy a battery at some point. “YES but like not now at 3 am! In the morning.”

Fast forward to the morning. We wake up and right away I tell him to go pic a mystery box. There were only 2 left at this point. He brought back the one I was hoping. He opens it up and out comes the anal hook. Are you getting an idea yet where this is going? he is a bit nervous as he is not sure how an anal hook feels and what will happen to him. I have get on all 4s on the bed and start things nicely with a bit of anal play. I slip on a glove, lube it up very well and explore his anal cavity. Now this he enjoys and I get him loose and he is enjoying a prostate massage. When I feel he is ready I get the anal hook out. I slip a condom on and slowly maneuver the hook in. His body jumps up a bit of the bed from the unusual sensation.

“OK time to stand up.” That seems to be an interesting procedure for him. he is unsure how to move. Of course now we want that hook to stay in place nicely so I get out a good length of rope and I put him in a Karada using the top hook as an anchor for the bondage. Oh muzhik just looks so pretty now and that anal hook ain’t going NOWHERE. I am savoring this moment. “Alright get dressed and go buy the battery across the street now”. it takes him a moment to register I mean now with the hook and rope. he is a little uncertain. “Go get dressed”  I say. I follow him to the room and watch him struggle with his clothes. I am really having fun watching him struggle a bit. I did have to put his socks and shoe on – no way he was going to be able to do that.

I send him on his way out the door for his errand. The look on his face is just too precious and all I really want to do is get dressed and go with him at a distance and observe. Its killing me staying home. But I want him to feel the vulnerability of being out in public alone while in serious anal bondage under his clothes. I am loving this task mixing up, sexual anal play, bondage, public humiliation and mind fuck.

Finally he comes back. Mission accomplished with a brand new 9V battery for the TENS. Now I am telling you destiny has lined things up in my favor. muzhik proceeds to tell me he thought his errand was in vain as he could not see the 9V battery…until he noticed there was one left…on the bottom shelf !!! Apparently getting it – as discreetly as possible -  was quite a challenge. I ask him how the whole experience was. he says definitely different, nice, and walking at a normal pace on the street made him feel the ball on the hook quite intensely. I gave him a few light spank and ‘butt wiggle’ which had quite an effect. “You feel that” Oh yes is the answer. I left the hook in while we prepared breakfast and even had him sit at the table to eat his breakfast.

Only after breakfast did I remove the hook. he is a bit relieved but I think he really enjoyed the scene too. After that we go back to the bedroom and start back where we left off the night before. I placed the pads on him, hooked them up to the TENS, played with the dials….and this time we have electricity. muzhik finally gets his first experience with electricity play.

It has been a while since I mentioned cell popping. I finally have a little update on it. Remember my trip to La Fortress in NC for a workshop? My “stunt-bottom” Nefarious was suppose to send me a pic a few days later to show me how the cell popping was looking. I got the pic this week 3+ months later. hey better late then never, right lol?

Since I have pics of the fresh cell popping and of what it looks like a few days later I though it was a great opportunity to show the progress. Often people are disappointed right after because the popping looks pale and white. I always say “Give it a couple of days”. Cell popping is a tiny burn that break the first layer of the skin. It is a wound. The body protects itself by forming a scab over the wound. That is when cell popping is at its best…that time frame where the scabs are fresh. Just see for yourself below…

Want to see how cell popping is done? Watch the video of this scene here.

Or if you will be at the Montreal Fetish Weekend this summer I will be giving a cell popping workshop as part of the  activities of the weekend! Come see it first hand.

3 more days till my bitch gets here. And goods news…I found him a sub name! TBC…

Now as wonderful as the whole weekend will be, he has 1 punishment accumulated to be administered when here: 10 cane hits. he has never been caned and is fearful. Just the way I like him.

Well last night a girlfriend of mine came over for dinner. She is a switch but more Mistress with a bottom masochist side. I told her about the caning I was going to give my bitch and she was like : I wonder what its like I have never been caned. Well being a good hostess I offered her the chance to experiment.

Also I thought it would be good practice for me he he. Now she can do pain like most men can’t handle. All men I have caned have winced, screamed, grunted, suffered. She was like : that is it? But what marks we got out of it. That she loves.

See how beautiful they are!