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Officials Irritated by Deprivity

Monday, November 9th, 2009

A new acquaintance made me aware of this story. I don’t even know the people involved or was aware of their art but I was quit irritated with the situation and felt bad for those involved.

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RemyFX, a Montreal special effects masterful artist, was arrested October 29th because of his work. Well not his work but his personal projects. His now removed from the internet website InnerDepravity was apparently the troublesome matter with Canadian Law officials. He was quoted as saying:

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“I recieved visit from police thursday night, ive been arrested for criminal charge because im the owner and creator of the website InnerDepravity.

They took my computer and i pass the night in cell.

My crime is : Corruption of morality.

we live now in a dictaturship society, we cannot use art as we want, we cannot use horror in art !”

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Good news is his other site, RemyFX, an online portfolio, is still up. I am including bellow a small galery of pictures from Inner Depravity. I am keeping them small in case you cannot stomach such images but if you want to see them full size just click on each thumbnail.

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Now there is a help the cause mission statement with a bit of info created by some of his friends and some discussions going on of Facebook…but I cannot find anywhere anything official of his arrestation. From what I reada some say it is partly the CBSA Policy On The Classification Of Obscene Material or the Prostitution laws protect againstmoral corruption that are invloved. In my opinion neither are involved since a) no prostituion involved b) its not an import product. Not having the exact charge bugs me in pronouncing my opinion.

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But if he truly was arrested purely for ‘offensive to some’ material…it is complete ridiculous. Yes his scenes are gore and horror related…but its make-up. Its a photo shoot. Its art. Everyone involved is of legal age! Who on other thinks they have the right to draw the line on what is offensive? No children or animals were portrayed! And we see these things all the time in movies.

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And who is next to be accused of immoral and offensive behavior. BDSMers and Fetishists? Do I need to fear going to a play party? I find the whole thing beyond disturbing.

Out There Fetishes

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

I was recently chatting online with a lovely your unsure female sub of the tender age of 21…wow I am only 35 but 21 seems so far ago. Anyways we were discussing fetishes and she interpreted it in the more conventional sense and mentioned a few ones of hers that made me think…’we are not talking about he same thing’. So I went on to explain to her what, for our community, is a fetish:

In our community a fetish usually involves a sexual arousal from an inanimate object, body part or situation…like a foot, a shoe, a clown, blod, etc. This is the definition of paraphilias. So I looked up online some a-little-out-there fetishes. Found a great article on it called Top 10 Weird Sexual Fetishes and Paraphilias. This is their list:

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Formicophilia

This is deriving sexual pleasure from insects crawling on the body, specifically on the genitals. It is more common in developing countries, perhaps because homes are infested with insects. This could lead to an individual’s genitals being exposed to insects (especially if they have outdoor bathrooms, as many developing countries do), and if this happens at a young age when they are sexually developing, they may derive pleasure from it.

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Plushophilia

Perhaps liking one of your stuffed animals a little too much as a child can lead to this fetish. It is being sexually attracted to stuffed animals or people dressed in animal costumes. Some plushophiles like to masturbate using small stuffed animals, and some like to dress up in costumes and have sex with others wearing costumes. Someone who is into bestiality, but doesn’t want to actually have sex with animals could also enjoy this fetish.

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Vorarephilia

This is arousal by the thought of being eaten by someone, eating someone else, or watching someone eat somebody else. It is called “vore” for short. Perhaps this is related to cannibalism, but how someone develops a fetish like this, I really could not even speculate upon. It involves pure fantasy (at least hopefully it does), since it would be very difficult to make any of the aforementioned situations reality.

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Inflatophilia

This fetish can vary in what the inflatophile enjoys. It can be an attraction to inflatable animals and toys, deriving sexual pleasure from wearing inflatable suits, or just being aroused from the thought of people inflating like balloons. Perhaps an inflatophile could enjoy the company of a blow-up doll a little too much. This is another fetish that any psychologist would probably have a hard time explaining.

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Erotic asphyxia

This is a dangerous practice wherein a person enjoys cutting off their air supply while having sex or masturbating. Those who practice this fetish claim that it makes orgasms more enjoyable, but sometimes they can’t get the rope, belt, or seatbelt that they use to strangle themselves

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Robot fetishism

This is a fantasy that involves the thought of having sex with a robot, having sex dressed as robots, or having sex with a person who is transformed into a robot. I’m sure that there are many geeks out there who fantasize about having sex with a perfect android woman, but this fetish can also involve fantasizing about having sex with a non-humanoid robot. I guess someone who really loves technology or science fiction could be into this.

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Burusera

This is a Japanese term for a panty fetish. It is an extremely prevalent fetish in Japan. There are burusera shops in Japan that sell used schoolgirls’ panties, and there even used to be vending machines on the streets where men could buy them. The men buy them to smell them. Since laws have been passed forbidding this practice with girls under the age of eighteen, young girls have still profited off of the practice by letting men pay them to simply sniff their panties under their skirts while they are wearing them. I have no idea why this has become so popular in Japan. Maybe they really enjoy their fish there? (Sorry, horrible joke.)

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Erotic lactation

This is simply the breastfeeding of an adult by a lactating woman for sexual arousal. Nipple stimulation during sex is widely practiced, but erotic lactation is much more taboo. Perhaps it gives the male in the relationship a sense of security (or maybe he just gets curious about what breast milk tastes like and decides he likes it). It’s a bit strange that nipple stimulation is a turn-on for women when their main purpose is for feeding babies, but I guess evolution has some reason for it.

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Klismaphilia

This is deriving sexual pleasure from receiving an enema. It’s not too surprising that people can get aroused from it, especially if they enjoy anal sex. A klismaphile may also enjoy pornographic films that portray someone receiving an enema and deriving sexual pleasure from it.

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Hybristophilia

This is often known as the Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome. It is a sexual attraction to someone who has committed a gruesome crime. Many inmates who are imprisoned for outrageous crimes receive love letters from women. It’s a very odd phenomenon. I guess the average bad boy isn’t enough for women who are hybristophiles.

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And another one bites the dust

Tuesday, October 6th, 2009

Please, really, please…can I have a normal applicant soon?
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Here is the latest. Let me say that I started off chatting to this sub without any hopes, even more as a social experiment, to see how far it would go. So he is a business man moving to Montreal for somewhere in Europe. We started chatting maybe a month ago and he was arriving here on Oct 01st. He had originally asked to meet me that evening, I playfully took a long time but eventually agreed. He kept talking about wanting to play that night. I repeatedly said” no way, no how, not gonna happen, get it into your head”. So he has a business meeting finally Thu, wants to know if I am free for a drink around 10h30 pm. Fuck NO…I work at 9 am the next day! He asks to meet me Fri. I was hosting a Sin Academy that night so told him he could come but not to expect me to be available much for one on one. I said how about Sat to accompany me to a munch. He says he has a meeting until late, he can join me for the after party.I gave him my cell number and gave an order to call on his arrival over the wkd. No call.
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Then Last day of Sep no news. Ok I figure he is packing. No news Oct 01st…ok he is travelling. No…5 days without news I get him on msn. This turns out to apparently be our last conversation which I am going to share with you. Of course I am keeping him anonymous…but Ladies stay away if you come across someone freshly off a plane from Sweden:
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idiot sub says: hi mistress
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Lady Evyl says: well, look who is back
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idiot sub says: Your favourite slave and future cuck
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Lady Evyl says: not so favorite. I understand the arrival was more then you expected with all the meetings and I knew we would not meet with your best intentions. But I did tell you to call at a min…you did not
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idiot sub says: You actually kept on killing my suggestions to meet no thursday, no friday, not inviting me to the workshop i felt you were not that interested
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Lady Evyl says: I beg you pardon, you cancelled Thu I had plans Fri and Sat before even meeting you And my last email was with the info of where I would be Fri, address and all.
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idiot sub says: you cancelled thu late night explaining you had to work on friday anyway
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Lady Evyl says: I did not cancel..I expected a normal dinner time…you said 10pm. I go to bed at 11. Perhaps you forgot I am not in a position to sacrifice myself here. I again do not think it was smart on your part to push meeting so fast by the time you arrived and then the next thing I knew you had a business meeting all the time. So your not exactly sending a good message here…ie message I will cancel things all the time.
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idiot sub says: pas de probleme nevermind, earning a million dollar salary requires compromising on work life balance that’s my life i move country, work long hours if you do not tolerate workaholics then we are not meant for each other i am not saying it with an angry feeling, it’s just who i am
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Lady Evyl says: Again, I can understand someone with a busy schedule…I have one. But if you know ahead of time that I will be cancelled on on a regular basis…then it won’t last long. I take my promises, even those for social engagements, to heart. And I went from daily emails to nothing for 5 days. So what do you expect me to think…that you lost interest to.
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idiot sub says: i know what i seek, and there are a few things like you not favouring sessions the first date and the workaholic/flexibility that seem to differ. no judgement, but  probably you are not the one for me, and i am not the one for yo my only chances during the last days were late nights
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Lady Evyl says: Hun, no real Mistress will put up with either of those…go see a Pro
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idiot sub says: maybe unconsciously i was testing you a bit, let’s see if she takes the chance to meet me late night, when it’s dark, when it’s true sin city, and (ab)uses me. pro is the opposite of what i seek…how can you do cuck with a pro???
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Lady Evyl says: true cuck is done only in a commited relationship…which you cannot even offer
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idiot sub says: nevermind  i still like youhave a nice life
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Lady Evyl says: Again not said with any angry intentions…but realize what you seek, if inflexible…is totally for yourself, against what a real sub is, egotistical. bye
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idiot sub says: i told you i need to be broken now you understand why
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Lady Evyl says: I know you said that But why would a Domme want to break you if you set yourself up as an impossible challenge of the bat. you have to give some devotion and steadiness at the beginning…otherwise why would a Domme even want to bother wasting possible lost energy
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idiot sub says: because the upside is awesome – she’ll have the best slave on earth
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Lady Evyl says: so you expect a Domme to just sacrifice herself for your benefit to hopefully in the future turn the tables?
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….and he went offline. What a moron…as I predicted.
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Online Dating movie

Saturday, September 19th, 2009

So a week ago I wrote a major rant post on a horrible online date I had last Sunday, and the bad luck of jerks or social aptitude challenged guys I came across lately.
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Well this morning I watched (well still watching) a great independent movie about online dating. It received rave reviews). Its called In Search of a Midnight Kiss. Here is the plot:
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The film follows the plight of Wilson a 29-year-old man who has just suffered through the most miserable year of his life. A new arrival to the City of Angels, Wilson ends up alone and penniless as New Year’s Eve rapidly approaches, and avows to lock his doors, pull his blinds, and climb into bed – until best friend Jacob talks him into posting a Craigslist personal ad. In seemingly no time at all, the message leads Wilson to Vivian a young woman who is determined to be with the “right” man at the stroke of midnight.
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I kind of relate to a lot of parts in this movie. There meeting is seriously unusual and they start just walking around the city and talking….on Dec 31st. they go through good times, vad times…and conversations where both just say the worst things in the male interpretation of wmen and women interpretation of man…a lot like I have expereinced lately. Within a movie contest it kind of makes me reflect on both sides of the coin.
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There is still about 20 min left to the end of the movie…but I am guessing it will have a happier ending then my last encounters lol. Yet, still, it is giving me a bit of hope that has been recently tarnished.
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Watch this movie, you will enjoy it!
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My Fantasy Sub

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

So I saw the new X-men movie: the origins the first wkd in May.
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Since the first X-men I have developed a severe obssesion (much suppressed now) with Hugh Jackman…particularly without a shirt on (or less!!!). They take full advantage of any possible shot of his pecs and biceps in this movie, even his ass. I LOVED IT!
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Now here is the interesting part though. This is the first movie X-men movie I have seen since entering BDSM….I was still vanilla during the first 3. And I got to thinking….
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Wolverine would be the ultimate beast to tame, to make submit. AND he is a sadist’s (like me) dream come true! I mean you could do ANYTHING to him and he would just heal up…but still feel the pain and be ‘taking it’ for his Mistress.
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I got a whole new set of fantasies to work with now……hmmmm
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Mystress Lady Evyl
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Clone my what?

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

As you all know if you are a regular reader I have my own sex toy website. So of course being ‘in-the-know’ of most sex toy product nothing usually impresses me much. BUT today something made me laugh so hard. Not that this toy is exotic…its just the nature of it.

What is it? Its a Clone-a-Pussy Kit. Now I know the Clone-a-Willy Kit has been around for a while, and I even know about a latex prosthetic vagina WITH masturbator, but first time I came across a pussy kit. Here is the write-up on it:

This fun and easy Do-It-Yourself Kit includes everything you’ll need to make an incredibly detailed, life-size rubber copy of the outer portion of any vagina from your own home.

These are the same top quality materials being used throughout Hollywood to create amazing props and special effects. Use the same State-of-the-Art materials to create your own copy of your favorite vagina. Contains no latex, usable with any lube, very crafty.

How Does it work?

1. Mix molding powder with water
2. To make the mold, insert a vagina and hold for approx. 60 seconds.
3. Easily remove the vagina and pour in the ‘Liquid Rubber’
4. Slide out a permanent pussy replica Use the mold over and over again and create your own treasured collection of life-like vaginas.

Please Note: Your new pussy replica is a shallow likeness, without a hole, and not designed for …ahem…. insertion.

So I am officially offering subs, slaves and sluts the chance to purchase a replica of my pussy…as an HOMMAGE…for a mere $200 US (approx 3-5 weeks delivery)…leave me a comment if interested!

Lady Evyl
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Saturday, March 15th, 2008


I am speechless

Lady Evyl

The Subservient Chicken ?????

Monday, March 10th, 2008

Ok….now….you know how sometimes you research stuff on the net and fall on something COMPLETELY different then what you wanted…yet it is related to other stuff in your life.

Well it just happened to me, and its freaking hilarious. I fell on this on Wikipedia: The Subservient Chicken is an advertising program created to promote international fast food restaurant chain Burger King’s Tender Crisps chicken sandwich and their “Have it Your Way” campaign. In addition to the commercials, there is The Subservient Chicken web page. On the page, an actor in a chicken costume performs a wide range of actions based on a user’s input, showing pre-recorded footage and appearing like an interactive webcam. The site takes literally the advertising slogan “Get chicken just the way you like it”.

OK, so who is showing up at the next fetish event dressed like a chicken? Talk about pet-play

Lady Evyl

What are they thinking?

Friday, December 21st, 2007

OK, so I got a profile on collarme and alt.com. Yes I am a Domme and yes I get messages from slaves and subs groveling on their knees. But some messages I get, its like WTF? A few actual intro examples:

  • castrate me
  • I would do anything to have a chance to beg for my life as you asphyxiate me to death.
  • u can use my ass anyway u like
  • Can i see some pictures? Interested?

And my all time favorite, cause Dommes just LOVE to hear this one:

  • nice tits

HELLO? You are slave, introduce your self seriously and properly.

Lady Evyl

Peer support: Domme plenty

Tuesday, November 27th, 2007

Oh my what a new world I have entered. And what requests I have been asked. I feel like I have to recalibrate my whole way of thinking. But that is ok, I am happy to refresh my views on people and the world.

Now that I have proclaimed myself a Dominatrix worker as well its been the opposite reaction. I have been contacted by a few fellow Doms, male and female. Everyone is willing to exchange info, training, friendship, discussion. There is so much support in this community.

Why is that you ask? Well I have had various opinions as I have discussed it with them. Some are not appropriate to mention. But my take. A Dom/me is a confident and strong person that knows not to be worried by threats of competition. Well there is much less competition anyways. And I also think its because we fall more into the taboo cracks of society where Dom/mes crave the support of sharing experiences with others that have been there, that understand.

So thank you to those that have reached out to me so far, I welcome it with open arms.

And curious reader do not hesitate to contact me for Domme sessions. Let me introduce you to new experience you have never imagined before.

Lady Evyl

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